Is Porn Ever a Good Thing?

Is Porn Ever a Good Thing
Too often too many people watch porn on the internet. Porn is all about sex, sex, and even more sex. Sometimes; however, there is not sex featured in porn. This type of porn is softer core and is different than hard core.

Soft core porn usually involves kissing, masturbation, and touch. It does not involve any sex and sometimes only features one gender. On the other hand hard core porn can be a guy and a girl or combinations with many guys and girls. This can sometimes get a bit out of hand.

What it comes down to is that porn can be an addiction and can harm people involved in relationships. This happened to Michael Leahy who has written a book on Porn Nation and speaks at college campuses. I saw him several years ago when he visited my college. He talks about how pornography cost him his marriage and his business partnership.

People will often turn to porn and masturbation

In many relationships one partner may have a greater sex drive than the other. Many people are also not in relationships and thus want some stimulation. People will often turn to porn and masturbation. The problem is, is that this can lead to addiction and lack of developing relationships.

Far too many people do not realize how degrading pornography is and the types of things that go on in it. These things would never happen in real life and may cause men to degrade women and not think of them properly. Men may think of women as sex objects and not develop proper feelings. This can cause move over into real relationships.

Men are not the only ones who watch porn. Women also watch porn as well. Watching porn can also be uncomfortable, especially if you live with someone else. You could potentially get caught and this could be very embarrassing for you and the person who finds you in the act.

The goal then is to not watch porn and be able to develop effective relationships with others to satisfy your needs. Thus you need to go out and meet people. However you don’t want to rush anything and take it slow enough so that you can listen to the other person’s needs and desires. Getting rid of porn can be difficult. You might not a support group or a therapist to help you through it. You need to channel your energy into other means and find an effective way to release.